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Community Dances

dsc_0735 One of the time honored traditions in Centennial Park is our community dances. Dances have proven to be not only safe and clean entertainment, but a load of fun for the young and the old alike. They are a great time for parents and children to associate with other parents and their children, in the true spirit of home entertainment. There are often other entertainments like skits and various contests; some as crazy as building a tower out of only balloons and straws. (see photo).  A dance is a great opportunity to have wholesome fun, while learning a lot of social grace, and hopefully a little bit of ballroom dancing. Our dances are one more thing that brings our community together. As for me, I just keep trying not to step on toes.

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dsc_7683dsc_7786      For nearly a year now, Centennial Park’s automated garbage truck has been out of service.  The truck cannot pick up the can and proceed to dump it on its own steam. SO, like many integral tasks important to the community, the missionaries have picked up the slack. Our garbage collector drives our dumpster style-emptying truck (with front forks rather than an automated arm) and the missionaries dump cans into an empty dumpster hauled on the front of the truck. Nearing its first anniversary, garbage emptying has become one of those behind-the-scenes events that no one really notices. Often, I get assigned to this task. It has made me realize that there are countless people around me who make my lifestyle here not only comfortable, but POSSIBLE. And yet, many times this volunteer service goes unappreciated. Few people realize that at 9:00 every Thursday morning, people are voluntarily extending themselves on their behalf. This post is to all those brave souls who through rain or snow, wind and sand, put their hands in the work.       ~One of our Missionaries

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The State of Arizona selected Masada Charter School as the Title I Distinguished School for the state. On February 19th, a group from Masada went to San Antonio to participate in the recognition ceremony. A member of that group also participated on a panel presenting best practice strategies around “Professional Growth & Support”. This recognition establishes Masada as a model for designing and implementing school wide Title I strategies.   Way to go Masada!!

Prayer in School

Since “The Pledge of Allegiance” and “The Lord’s Prayer” are not allowed in most public schools anymore because the word ‘God’ is mentioned…
A 15 year old kid in Arizona wrote the following:

Now I sit me down in school
Where praying is against the rule
For this great nation under God
Finds mention of Him very odd.

If Scripture now the class recites, It violates the Bill of Rights.
And anytime my head I bow
Becomes a Federal matter now.

Our hair can be purple, orange or green,
That’s no offense; it’s a freedom scene.
The law is specific, the law is precise.
Prayers spoken aloud are a serious vice.

For praying in a public hall
Might offend someone with no faith at all
In silence alone we must meditate,
God’s name is prohibited by the state.

We’re allowed to cuss and dress like freaks,
And pierce our noses, tongues and cheeks..
They’ve outlawed guns, but FIRST the Bible.
To quote the Good Book makes me liable.

We can elect a pregnant Senior Queen,
And the ‘unwed daddy,’ our Senior King.
It’s ‘inappropriate’ to teach right from wrong,
We’re taught that such ‘judgments’ do not belong.

We can get our condoms and birth controls,
Study witchcraft, vampires and totem poles.
But the Ten Commandments are not allowed,
No word of God must reach this crowd.

It’s scary here I must confess,
When chaos reigns the school’s a mess.
So, Lord, this silent plea I make:
Should I be shot; My soul please take!
Amen

~Posted to the internet by an unknown author.

Secret to Life

  Submitted by ~A Woman’s Place~

 

                One of the main goals our teacher has in mind for us in our drawing classes is to learn how to see.  To go beyond what we think we know about the object or scene that we are trying to draw.  It has been kind of an interesting exercise to do this because it takes both seeing things on face value and getting almost intimate with the subject at hand. 

A connection is formed and an understanding begins.  With the understanding comes an “Ah, Ha” moment with what it is you are seeing. And then the best part is when the beauty of it starts to unveil itself. The secrets of our creator whispered in the moment.  Be it nature, be it architecture, inanimate objects, animate objects, or life. The design, the creation, the purpose has a purity and a beauty, but also a story latent with value, a reason to be told and a cause to be heard.  Life should never be merely replicated, it should be understood, as should each one of us.

THE MEANING OF LIFE… …IS TO SEE.

                                        Hui Neng   500 CE

JUDGEMENTS COME FROM LOOKING… …COMPASION COMES FROM “SEEING”

                                         Quotes from my teacher

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The Principle Rights Coalition sponsored a Legislative Education Day today at the Utah State Capitol.  We had short presentations  by Ric Cantrell – Chief Deputy of the Utah State Senate, Mark Shurtleff – Utah Attorney General, Paul Murphy – Director of Communications for the A.G.’s office, and Mary Batchelor.

Ric Cantrell gave a great speech about how important it is for us to get involved in our government.  He said “the only safety lies in engagement.”  And he gave us some way to become “engaged.” 

  • All Senate debates are live streamed
  • They do pod casts
  • The Utah Senate has its own YouTube channel
  • And, of course, Email

Mark Shurtleff  agreed with everything Ric said and then reminded us that polygamy is a felony and is against the constitution of Utah.  He told us that if we want to change that fact we are going to have to get involved.  He also assured us that what happened in Texas will not happen here (in Utah)

Paul Murphy told is that Mark Shurtleff if a tough guy but he has a tender heart.  Paul is concerned about the stories he hears of people in polygamous communities not daring to get help when they need it.  He reminded us that the Amish people were not always seen in a good light, but now they are known for their forgiveness and furniture.  Paul hopes that one day we will be known for our strength and hard work.

Mary Batchelor gave us a quick overview of how to lobby our legislators.  The first rule is be courteous, polite, and respectful.   The second rule is to keep it short and simple (KISS) because the legislators don’t have time to read lengthy letters.  She also told us that the last thing we want to do is get in an argument with them because that will just close doors and shut down the lines of communication.

We ended our time there with a tour of the Capitol.

A Little Bit of Heaven

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          I have to admit I have had an abundant season this past little while. I’ve been able to welcome into my arms three new little granddaughters over the last several months. In my humble opinion they are simply the most beautiful little creatures I have ever seen (at least for the present).
But it is a little more than that; I was able to have the privilege of witnessing the transformation each little girl brought with them. Behind each one is a unique and weighty story marking their arrival in history and in our own story. They were greatly sought after and true blessings in the lives of their families. We all know the feelings that come with these occasions, kind of a mixed bag of emotion and anticipation strewn with “three deep breaths and we’re in it”, all that warmly sewn up with tender sentiment.
          I had these sensations as I witnessed their parents in their yearning for them, and then at each of their arrivals how deeply in love everyone felt for them. The glow on the mother’s face, tired and crying as she stroked the cheek of the newborn, the glisten of their daddy’s eye moist with emotion, and oh, the softness of the other mother, cooing over this tiny bundle.
          Yet even more than that I think this time around I have had a heightened feeling of their potential in life. The promises given, laced with the experiences to be faced, all the hope that rides forward when a baby graces our lives. I felt these things along with the love God feels towards such innocents and the hope He has for them. I felt so strongly with each bitty angel a lingering of Heaven in the room. Each little sister brought with her a glimpse of what we are to each other. How much she needs the family she is in, and how so very much they need her.
          It truly is a plan to work together, to be together and share in this wonderful life as a family—Heaven’s blessings to you all.

Submitted by  ~A Woman’s Place~

Such a Colorful Life

           

      

             Hello and Happy New year to everyone. I’ve been so busy lately that I’m not quite sure I’m here. But I am and even have a few minutes to spend writing. The soup is on the stove simmering and being Wednesday and all, one of the other ladies has a fresh batch of bread in the oven ready to come out about the time our kids are walking through the door to have lunch. How great is that? I’d say we’re pretty spoiled.
Things have been snowy, cold, frozen, sunny, muddy and wet, sometimes all in the same morning, but they’ve been great. I’ve registered for my Drawing II class and homework is underway once again. I have this idea that I would like to get an art degree and sharpen my skill with writing at the same time. We have such a colorful life before us that I would love to capture it and share it forward. I have a niggling of an idea that wants to come out…and that is to write and illustrate short stories of what life is like through the eyes of a polygamous child. I know what it was like for me growing up in Salt Lake City, what it was like for my husband and his siblings growing up in Hildale. I have rich stories from my mothers-in-law growing up in Short Creek, from our own children growing up in Colorado City, and our grandchildren breaking in their generation’s “happenings”.
To revisit these experiences, examine them and ponder over them, for me, would be very satisfying in deed. It would almost be like getting away with being a kid twice. Now how spoiled is that?

 Submitted by ~A Woman’s Place~

Photograph by: Ian Smith, Vancouver Sun

http://www.vancouversun.com/news/Polygamy+court+case+shines+spotlight+Creston+divisions/1199308/story.html

CRESTON — The practice of polygamy sets neighbour against neighbour, parent against child, politician against politician and even some husbands against wives in this southeastern B.C. town.

It’s not that townsfolk here are polygamists. But Creston’s proximity to the fundamentalist Mormon community of Bountiful, where some men unabashedly have more than one wife, makes it a more frequent topic than most would like.

Wednesday, the spotlight will be on it again.

Two of the Bountiful’s leaders will be in court for the first time since having been charged earlier this month with practising polygamy, a criminal offence that carries a penalty of up to five years in jail.

Winston Blackmore, 52, is charged with having had conjugal relations with 19 women. James Oler, 44, is charged with having two “wives.”

Both have polygamy as a tenet of their beliefs and family trees so intertwined that you need a flow chart. But the enmity between the two and their followers is even greater than the divide in town.

Nothing more starkly illustrates the town’s and maybe even the country’s divide over polygamy than Blackmore’s defence team. It includes Blair Suffredine, the former Liberal MLA for Nelson-Creston, who during his single term had several meetings with local activists who urged him to do something about Bountiful.

“It’s an interesting complication,” Suffredine said Tuesday. “But it’s not a conflict of interest. My time as an MLA gave me a good opportunity to see both sides of the issue.”

After meeting with constituents who complained about Bountiful, Suffredine says he met with Blackmore, who responded “in a very positive way.”

But news that the former MLA was working for Blackmore shocked and infuriated Linda Price and Audrey Vance, co-chairs of a local group called Altering Destiny Through Education.

They’ve spent the last five years lobbying politicians, including Suffredine, to tighten the rules for two taxpayer-supported schools at Bountiful, investigate allegations of child brides, sexual exploitation, human trafficking and polygamy and prosecute the leaders.

“I feel betrayed,” Price said Tuesday. “He must have been slapping Winston’s back or Winston was slapping his back and we didn’t realize it.”

They recalled meetings with Suffredine and how he had told them that he thought prosecuting polygamists was a waste of money because the polygamy law was unconstitutional.

Vance says it helps explain why it has taken so long for charges to be laid.

“Too many of the people in this community were good friends of Winston Blackmore,” Vance said.

But Price says, it’s an indication of how opinion divides here. “I think quite often it’s men against women. . . Women realize what’s going on and men say ‘Leave them alone, they’re nice hard-working people, leave them alone.’”

Acting mayor Wesly Graham calls the people from Bountiful “good neighbours. We have good relations. We interact with them in town.”

But when it comes to the question of polygamy, he admits it is such an explosive topic that the town council is trying to stay neutral.

Its official position is that the mayor and councillors believe it will be a landmark case on the issue of religious freedom and that they hope that the justice system will bring some clarity to the law.

Neutrality is a big change. For years, the town council adopted the live-and-let-live view. It was only a few years ago after more reports of underage girls becoming plural wives to older men, that former mayor Joe Snopek backed calls for an investigation and even prosecution.

But John Kettle, the local representative on the regional district and the chairman of the hospital board, supported Suffredine financially and remains an outspoken defender of Blackmore’s right to practise polygamy as part of his religion.

That sure doesn’t reflect the views of a cluster of residents outside the Creston movie theatre Monday night. They questioned whether the equality rights of women and children are being upheld in Bountiful.

They raised concerns that close to $1 million worth of B.C. tax dollars go into the schools and yet few from Bountiful ever graduate from high school.

They wanted to know why Canada’s anti-polygamy law isn’t being upheld and why some legal experts are suggesting that there should be different laws for different groups in Canada.

Of course, they had just watched Bill Maher’s Religulous. The timing of the one-night run of the comic-documentary questioning all beliefs and faiths was serendipitous, but the approaching Blackmore-Oler court appearance might have helped account for the full house and some of the big laughs.

As divided as Creston may be, it is nothing compared to Bountiful.

Until 2002, Blackmore was the bishop of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Oler replaced him after Blackmore left the group, fed up with the increasingly draconian diktats and apocalyptic revelations coming from the FLDS prophet.

Blackmore was subsequently excommunicated and took about half of Bountiful’s 1,000 residents with him. Since then, FLDS followers have shunned Blackmore and his followers, warned that even talking to them could put their own salvation at risk.

All of which makes any kind of joint defence highly unlikely.

In fact, with ongoing and impending litigation facing jailed FLDS prophet Warren Jeffs and leaders in two states, and trials set to begin soon for nine other church leaders in Texas, Oler and the FLDS might be quite content to let Blackmore lead an expensive constitutional battle, chiming in only when it suits their interests.

Preventing Victims

The media generally associates our plural lifestyle with the word “Victim”.  As a commitee the following are a few things we have worked on to make sure we are not creating “Victims”.

 Awareness:

Building community

awareness through education

about appropriate parental and

spousal relationships and by training

citizens to see the signs of

abuse and to know how and when

to report.

 

 

Access:

Creating partnerships

with agencies, fostering local support

systems for families, playing

the role of service sponsors and

coordinators, and breaking down

barriers among community members.

 

 

 

Justice:

Striving to right the laws

that create unique barriers for our

citizens, bringing law enforcement

presence into our underserved

community, and breaking down

stereotypes.

 

Vision:

Believing that citizens have

an inalienable right to peace, happiness,

protection, security, and justice

and that building healthy and

able families through education and

support is the key to reducing

abuse.

 

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